They assume everyone is carbon copies of each other.
They assume you're fresh off the line at the factory with no injury history, zero unique challenges, and you understand everything they say to a T.
But that's not the case, is it?
It's like approaching someone at the bar with a pre-rehearsed template.
Pretend you got really nervous talking to someone at a bar.
The kind of nervous where you tell yourself for 20 minutes that you'll go talk to them.
Then they walk closer to you..
You can feel yourself getting sweaty.
You make eye contact.
This is the moment!
You open you mouth.
And let an awkward "hello" 3 octaves higher than your actual voice.
Woof... Better luck next time.
So you tell yourself it's time to change your ineptitude at dialogue and become the communicator you dream of
You get an ad for the PERFECT CONVERSATION TEMPLATE.
It reads, "Use this template to talk to girls with confidence and charisma like never before."
Wow! Problem solved.
You rehearse the template and make your way back out to the bars for redemption.
You say, "Hi, my name is _____. What's your name?"
*You get a name*
So far so good. Results baby!
Then you ask, "Do you come here often?"
*awkward laugh.. yeah sometimes*
Uh oh...
You ask the next question you remember, "Can I buy you a drink?"
*they aren't drinking tonight."
Well shit...
What do you do next.
You recall what you remember from the template.
At some point it said ask for a number so you let it rip.
"Can I get your number???"
*no thanks*
REJECTION.
Do you see the problem?
You can't expect results using templates that don't teach you the nuance.
You might have the same goals as people, but how you get there will look different person to person.
Just like getting someone's number will happen differently each time.
Templates ignore individual needs and lack the ability to adapt.